SOCIAL NETWORKING
DECEIVING THE OTHER – LOSING YOUR HAYAA
(self-respect)
Don’t trust anybody so easily on social networking forums.
They could easily deceive you in every way possible by portraying an image of their self which does not exist !
I’ve dealt with many cases based on this theory and that is why I’m warning the youth to be very cautious with regards to social forums InshaAllah.
You may fall inlove with the character through these social forums, but when you finally meet that person and decide to get married…after some time you realize whatever you’re experienced before marriage was almost like a fairy tale and now it’s become your worst nightmare.
That same caring, concerned, passionate, lovable, gentlemen turns into a monster .
A monster who tarnishes your name, destroys your hayaa.
This applies for the males as well.
Sometimes a female may be experiencing some difficulty in her marriage or life and due to that she searches for attention, seeks comfort from other men and you are not aware of all this because whatever was mentioned was lies, lies, and more lies!
You are used for your health, wealth, time, and fulfillment of desires.
My advice respected brothers and sisters to your’ll is don’t be so gullible and stoop to such a level .
Why be in the disobience of Allah Ta’ala just for a temporary pleasure ?
Don’t let your nafs overpower you .
Whenever you’re thinking of attempting something wrong, think if you had to die at that very moment , how will you face your Creator?
The seconds, minutes, hours, of the life of this world is like a block of ice that is melting relentlessly in the sun.
Spend your time wisely my respected readers.
The first stage is the qabr(grave), if you pass it with ease then everything else will be easy for u inshaAllah .
Allah Ta’ala knows when the right time for marriage is for each individual.
Be patient and focus on becoming the person Allah Ta’ala and our beloved Nabi Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam will be pleased with InshaAllah.
You will surely get your chance to have fun the halaal way with your spouse but don’t be involved in anything before marriage.
Allah Ta’ala has wisdom behind His Good and Bad Decisions.
Remember this sinful slave in your duas InshaAllah.
